I deactivated my facebook account on Friday morning. Over the last few weeks I have been mulling over taking a break from facebook. More and more I find myself opening it on my phone or going to it on our laptop as a time filler. I hate that.
I hate that I feel somewhat addicted to my phone and I hate that Lena sees me "wasting time" on my phone or on the computer while she is awake. I feel the same way regarding Pinterest and any other sites I may visit to fill a self-imagined void.
Now there are things I love about facebook. I like seeing {most} updates and pictures from friends and family. I love when people post research or news articles that interest me. For example, a friend of ours recently posted an in-depth article about where he works. I already find what he does fascinating so getting to read more about it was like giving me candy. Without fb I probably would have never had that opportunity. I love keeping in touch with my cousins who are away at college but doing some awesome things. I love getting a heads-up from companies that I 'like' on sales and new items. And finally, I love that it can be a great place to ask for advice from friends on a multitude of topics (although the answers may not always be the best).
Then there are the things I dislike. I loathe the political posts. I hate the play-by-play updates some give on a daily basis. I don't like reading advice people give regarding care for babies/kids that sometimes leaves me cringing or giving a side-eye. I roll my eyes when people post on a spouse/significant other's wall about how great they are. And then there are the whiners who cry out every day for attention or people who constantly AW everything.
Before you say it, yes I realize that I can block certain updates or people. But since my problem is not just that fb annoys the heck out of me, but also that I find myself checking it out of habit it will be better to do away with it all together, at least temporarily. After all, there was a point in my life where I lived without it quite well so I am sure the same can be true now.
Judging from the blog's site statistics, a majority of the readers link here from either myself or Mr. Gebely's fb profiles. If you don't want to forget the link you'll either have to subscribe via an online reader, bookmark the link, or search through google each time. Sorry if this is an inconvenience to you!
Although I have been staying away from the computer in the evening, I do not have any plans to stop blogging. I love reading old posts, especially from a few years ago and know I will appreciate this online journal more and more as Lena grows up. Plus it is the only way many of our far away family and friends see pictures.
So tell me, have any of you ever taken a break from Facebook or another website you frequented? How did it go?